Before you pop the Question

Talk, Talk, Talk! - Talk to each other!

Discuss the idea of living together, getting engaged and extend the conversation towards Marriage and spending the rest of your lives together. This will give you a good indication of her response and you will both have a good idea of each other’s intentions. You really can’t talk too much!

If you are planning a surprise proposal, there are a few things to bear in mind:

• Ascertain whether she has a preference for gold, white gold or platinum. Does she have a favorite precious stone, or is she a traditional Solitaire girl? Don’t spend a fortune unless you are sure. After all she will be wearing this ring for the rest of her life! If in any doubt buy an imitation ring for the Proposal and book a date to take her out and choose together.
• It’s a very good idea to ask the permission of her Parents. It’s traditional and often assures mutual respect.
• Plan your Proposal carefully, take your time – it really will be worth the effort involved. Have Fun!
• What if she says no?
• It’s ok to be disappointed and embarrassed. It may be that she is not ready, or that maybe you are not meant to be engaged or married.
• But remember – There is someone for everyone!

Good Luck!

Another three day weekend is upon us, here in the UK! Time to have a lie in, take it easy, catch up on Jobs? Alternatively use the extra time to sort out your wedding!

Here are a few ideas for making the most of this bank holiday (particularly as it is forecast to rain!):

• Look at your theme - Have you connected all aspects or are there parts that need to be embellished by your theme? Look carefully and use this time to experiment.
• Start organizing your Guest list; make sure that your friends and family are included. Check with both sets of Parents to make sure everyone who needs to be invited is on the list

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The receiving line is a formal way of greeting your guests, and for them to be introduced to both families. It ensures that you meet with each one and share a few words. Many couples choose not to have a receiving line because of the time it takes to greet each guest individually, some think it old fashioned and prefer an informal “meet and greet”. However families are greeted together and this will save some time.

Things to remember if you do want to have a receiving line:

• If you are having a Toastmaster he or she will announce the names of each guest if you wish to keep everything Formal.
• If you choose to be traditional, the line up is as follows: Brides Mother, Brides Father, Grooms Mother, Grooms Father, Bride, Groom, Best Man and lastly the Chief Bridesmaid

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Many people are a little confused as to what is allowed in respect of readings during Wedding Ceremonies. The choice of reading a passage or a piece of  poetry is up to you! Some Ministers require readings taken from the Bible, but some are happy to give you complete freedom.

Readings are often a reflection of you and your love - however they are optional and play no legal part of the ceremony. They add further meaning to the vows you are taking and are a great way of involving family and friends in the wedding ceremony.

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It’s often the little things that people notice! So make sure your wedding has the finishing touches that will make the difference.

Top Tables

Your Top Table is the focus of attention during the meal and speeches; it is where you and your closest family and friends sit. Therefore a beautifully dressed Top table is a must for those all important photographs. Colour or pure white, the choice is yours, details like ribbon bows and Tulle look stunning! You can add balloon arches, floating clouds or giant metallic hearts linked with bridal Tulle for a romantic look. Candles set on a mirror base are an effective way of adding soft romantic light to your atmosphere.

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I have been co-ordinating events for the last twenty years - weddings, celebrations, corporate and charity events — nothing is too small or too big for the team at Rainbow Weddings. People often ask “how did it all begin?” so I though I’d write a post explaining the story so far. I began organising events, mostly charity events, summer balls, luncheons, and fundraisers – family weddings and “Big” celebrations soon followed. Friends and acquaintances asked me to organise their weddings and special events. It was at this time that someone said “Why don’t you set up your own business?” Is there a market for it I asked myself?  Well, to cut a long story short, I took the plunge and Rainbow Weddings was born. Since the launch in April 2004 we have been voted the best up and coming company in the wedding industry and we have been asked to write articles in  Wedding Magazines.

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